Keep Calm and Enjoy 2013

7 Jan

I’ve been thinking about my own mortality a lot recently. Not to be dark and gloomy or anything, but I’m a little scared. I’m sitting here, core body temperature nearly high enough to boil water (kind of an exaggeration), and I realize…I have a serious illness that could kill me. I could die. I could be dead soon. These thoughts start repeating over and over in my head in a variety of different grammatical constructs, but I’ll spare you the superfluousness. Now, this is not the first time I’ve realized this or had these thoughts, but after so many tests, procedures, surgeries, and treatments, those thoughts can fade into the background and randomly resurface on nights like these.

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I have been really stressed out and depressed lately, but thinking back…in my short 22 years of life, the vast majority of them were wonderful and amazing. The ones that weren’t so much so (2012, if we’re naming names) had their amazing parts, as well. I’ve had a very blessed life up to this point. Last year, I graduated college and was accepted into medical school. That’s huge! That’s been my dream for as long as I can consciously remember (NOT an exaggeration).

I talked to my mom today, and she reminded me that a lot of people get depressed this time of year. She’s right. She suggested some things that I do, and her suggestions are always very good. I should take them, but will I? I’m not sure. It depends on how motivated I feel towards doing anything at all.

I talked to a friend of mine, and she pointed out that no one knows how long they have. That seems so obvious now, but it’s something I never really thought about, I guess. I mean, unless you have some kind of life shaking event happen to you or someone close to you, most people tend to take it for granted that tomorrow they’ll wake up and jump right into the daily grind. Anything could happen to anyone at any time, I just get slapped in the face with reminders of my own mortality more frequently, that’s all.

Life is really short. I’ve been really angry and upset about what’s going on in my life right now, and I still am, but right now…in this moment…I can actually have some perspective and focus on all the things that have gone right. There are so many more of those that it just doesn’t seem fair to discount any year as a loss, really. Even though 2013 has not gotten off to a good start by any means, I’m still here to experience it, and that’s half the battle, I guess. I’ll see where this crazy life of mine takes me next.

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3 Responses to “Keep Calm and Enjoy 2013”

  1. Cancer Curmudgeon January 8, 2013 at 7:50 PM #

    Hey bcomingfree, good to see you over here as well as tumblr! I’ve nominated you for the Reality Blog Award…it has no rules from what I can gather, I simply nominated 5 more blogs as did the one who nominated me (see my blog post http://anotheronewiththecancer.wordpress.com/). Don’t worry if you cannot accept…no pressure, just know I still keep up with your blogs even if when I am not actively posting (life interferes). Take care and keep up the blogging!

    • BcomingFree January 13, 2013 at 4:14 AM #

      Wow, thanks so much! That really means a lot :). I love reading your posts because they tend to make me think and/or make me laugh…both of which I enjoy.

  2. mmrljak January 13, 2013 at 8:59 AM #

    This post gave me chills! I love reading your writing too! Thank you for nominating me.

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